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r/dismissiveavoidants
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**This community isspecifically for those with a DA attachment style** This is to vent, support, and work towards having healthier relationships with others. A DA attachment is characterized by an intense fear of engulfment (and an unconscious fear of abandonment) which manifests in us fiercely defending/asserting our independence/autonomy often at the expense of intimacy. Please read the rules - assign yourself a user flair; and non-DAs please post in the weekly 'All AT Styles Thread' :)
This is a community specifically for those who test and identify as primarily as having a DA attachment style to vent, seek support, and work towards having healthier relationships with others. A DA attachment is characterized by an intense fear of engulfment (and an unconcious fear of abandonment) ...
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December 6, 2020
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Total Submissions
3,282
Total Comments
32,159
Earliest Submission
December 6, 2020
Earliest Comment
December 7, 2020
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Most Distinctive Words
Rank↕ | Word↕ | Occurrences in Subreddit | Total Occurrences | Rate in Subreddit (per 1M words) | Rate in Reddit (per 1M words) | Ratio (Sub Rate / Reddit Rate) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| #1 | 1,026 | 24,756 | 1576.7 | 0.2 | 7638.07 | |
| #2 | 227 | 35,643 | 348.8 | 0.3 | 1173.73 | |
| #3 | 1,495 | 276,909 | 2297.5 | 2.3 | 994.99 | |
| #4 | 897 | 443,849 | 1378.5 | 3.7 | 372.45 | |
| #5 | 53 | 28,338 | 81.4 | 0.2 | 344.69 | |
| #6 | 1,459 | 1,003,069 | 2242.1 | 8.4 | 268.07 | |
| #7 | 291 | 214,912 | 447.2 | 1.8 | 249.55 | |
| #8 | 128 | 101,724 | 196.7 | 0.8 | 231.90 | |
| #9 | 120 | 97,538 | 184.4 | 0.8 | 226.74 | |
| #10 | 458 | 455,587 | 703.8 | 3.8 | 185.27 | |
| #11 | 136 | 154,248 | 209.0 | 1.3 | 162.49 | |
| #12 | 207 | 245,628 | 318.1 | 2.0 | 155.31 | |
| #13 | 56 | 74,385 | 86.1 | 0.6 | 138.75 | |
| #14 | 179 | 238,143 | 275.1 | 2.0 | 138.53 | |
| #15 | 197 | 334,115 | 302.7 | 2.8 | 108.66 | |
| #16 | 69 | 127,026 | 106.0 | 1.1 | 100.11 | |
| #17 | 63 | 131,134 | 96.8 | 1.1 | 88.54 | |
| #18 | 63 | 132,734 | 96.8 | 1.1 | 87.47 | |
| #19 | 31 | 65,929 | 47.6 | 0.5 | 86.66 | |
| #20 | 48 | 111,143 | 73.8 | 0.9 | 79.59 | |
| #21 | 58 | 135,309 | 89.1 | 1.1 | 79.00 | |
| #22 | 880 | 2,188,233 | 1352.4 | 18.2 | 74.11 | |
| #23 | 38 | 103,863 | 58.4 | 0.9 | 67.43 | |
| #24 | 50 | 141,775 | 76.8 | 1.2 | 65.00 | |
| #25 | 526 | 1,736,283 | 808.3 | 14.5 | 55.83 | |
| #26 | 54 | 194,107 | 83.0 | 1.6 | 51.27 | |
| #27 | 145 | 521,665 | 222.8 | 4.3 | 51.23 | |
| #28 | 58 | 211,862 | 89.1 | 1.8 | 50.45 | |
| #29 | 178 | 670,438 | 273.5 | 5.6 | 48.93 | |
| #30 | 535 | 2,191,406 | 822.2 | 18.3 | 44.99 | |
| #31 | 62 | 256,361 | 95.3 | 2.1 | 44.57 | |
| #32 | 127 | 573,896 | 195.2 | 4.8 | 40.78 | |
| #33 | 67 | 311,701 | 103.0 | 2.6 | 39.61 | |
| #34 | 458 | 2,236,357 | 703.8 | 18.6 | 37.74 | |
| #35 | 84 | 469,064 | 129.1 | 3.9 | 33.00 | |
| #36 | 528 | 2,950,982 | 811.4 | 24.6 | 32.97 | |
| #37 | 178 | 1,036,565 | 273.5 | 8.6 | 31.65 | |
| #38 | 38 | 223,727 | 58.4 | 1.9 | 31.30 | |
| #39 | 585 | 3,658,044 | 899.0 | 30.5 | 29.47 | |
| #40 | 35 | 224,863 | 53.8 | 1.9 | 28.69 | |
| #41 | 42 | 283,373 | 64.5 | 2.4 | 27.32 | |
| #42 | 742 | 5,227,203 | 1140.3 | 43.6 | 26.16 | |
| #43 | 49 | 357,048 | 75.3 | 3.0 | 25.29 | |
| #44 | 43 | 320,581 | 66.1 | 2.7 | 24.72 | |
| #45 | 69 | 524,451 | 106.0 | 4.4 | 24.25 | |
| #46 | 134 | 1,026,990 | 205.9 | 8.6 | 24.05 | |
| #47 | 296 | 2,431,641 | 454.9 | 20.3 | 22.43 | |
| #48 | 126 | 1,042,853 | 193.6 | 8.7 | 22.27 | |
| #49 | 418 | 3,493,688 | 642.4 | 29.1 | 22.05 | |
| #50 | 43 | 361,182 | 66.1 | 3.0 | 21.94 |