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r/secondary_survivors
For the spouses, significant others, or family/friends of victims of rape and sexual abuse
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As much as /r/rapecounseling is a great resource, sometimes there are questions/discussions that are valuable to those who love a victim of sexual abuse that might be triggering or difficult for the victims themselves. Additionally, the issues that "secondary survivors" face are different from those of the direct victims. **This sub is a safe place for all those struggling with the knowledge that their loved one was sexually assaulted, where we can share advice, support and coping strategies.**
This subreddit exists to provide emotional support to those whose loved one / friend / family / partner has experienced sexual abuse. No question is out of bounds, no concern is too trivial.
This is a support subreddit. As such, we allow only self-posts. Posts which are unproductive (adverts), der...
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January 17, 2014
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Total Submissions
3,580
Total Comments
12,289
Earliest Submission
January 18, 2014
Earliest Comment
January 18, 2014
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Rank↕ | Word↕ | Occurrences in Subreddit | Total Occurrences | Rate in Subreddit (per 1M words) | Rate in Reddit (per 1M words) | Ratio (Sub Rate / Reddit Rate) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| #1 | 106 | 157,438 | 334.8 | 1.3 | 255.02 | |
| #2 | 54 | 118,023 | 170.6 | 1.0 | 173.30 | |
| #3 | 52 | 173,395 | 164.2 | 1.4 | 113.59 | |
| #4 | 173 | 703,730 | 546.4 | 5.9 | 93.12 | |
| #5 | 220 | 1,233,832 | 694.9 | 10.3 | 67.54 | |
| #6 | 641 | 4,406,369 | 2024.6 | 36.7 | 55.10 | |
| #7 | 53 | 374,645 | 167.4 | 3.1 | 53.58 | |
| #8 | 127 | 1,036,565 | 401.1 | 8.6 | 46.41 | |
| #9 | 113 | 937,779 | 356.9 | 7.8 | 45.64 | |
| #10 | 132 | 1,268,199 | 416.9 | 10.6 | 39.42 | |
| #11 | 64 | 646,069 | 202.1 | 5.4 | 37.52 | |
| #12 | 36 | 371,454 | 113.7 | 3.1 | 36.71 | |
| #13 | 79 | 853,096 | 249.5 | 7.1 | 35.08 | |
| #14 | 75 | 917,641 | 236.9 | 7.7 | 30.96 | |
| #15 | 172 | 2,288,208 | 543.3 | 19.1 | 28.47 | |
| #16 | 177 | 2,477,259 | 559.0 | 20.7 | 27.06 | |
| #17 | 60 | 850,888 | 189.5 | 7.1 | 26.71 | |
| #18 | 477 | 6,893,060 | 1506.6 | 57.5 | 26.21 | |
| #19 | 120 | 1,735,899 | 379.0 | 14.5 | 26.18 | |
| #20 | 41 | 602,429 | 129.5 | 5.0 | 25.78 | |
| #21 | 247 | 4,077,385 | 780.1 | 34.0 | 22.95 | |
| #22 | 219 | 3,937,208 | 691.7 | 32.8 | 21.07 | |
| #23 | 55 | 1,004,932 | 173.7 | 8.4 | 20.73 | |
| #24 | 189 | 3,594,575 | 596.9 | 30.0 | 19.92 | |
| #25 | 49 | 941,416 | 154.8 | 7.9 | 19.71 | |
| #26 | 31 | 603,631 | 97.9 | 5.0 | 19.45 | |
| #27 | 116 | 2,279,882 | 366.4 | 19.0 | 19.27 | |
| #28 | 39 | 779,166 | 123.2 | 6.5 | 18.96 | |
| #29 | 58 | 1,283,538 | 183.2 | 10.7 | 17.12 | |
| #30 | 43 | 993,863 | 135.8 | 8.3 | 16.39 | |
| #31 | 43 | 1,003,069 | 135.8 | 8.4 | 16.24 | |
| #32 | 77 | 1,815,722 | 243.2 | 15.1 | 16.06 | |
| #33 | 43 | 1,121,472 | 135.8 | 9.4 | 14.52 | |
| #34 | 49 | 1,279,001 | 154.8 | 10.7 | 14.51 | |
| #35 | 77 | 2,027,050 | 243.2 | 16.9 | 14.39 | |
| #36 | 74 | 1,951,968 | 233.7 | 16.3 | 14.36 | |
| #37 | 393 | 10,494,599 | 1241.3 | 87.5 | 14.18 | |
| #38 | 32 | 865,608 | 101.1 | 7.2 | 14.00 | |
| #39 | 112 | 3,030,419 | 353.7 | 25.3 | 14.00 | |
| #40 | 73 | 2,020,452 | 230.6 | 16.8 | 13.69 | |
| #41 | 125 | 3,493,688 | 394.8 | 29.1 | 13.55 | |
| #42 | 94 | 2,641,063 | 296.9 | 22.0 | 13.48 | |
| #43 | 71 | 2,007,532 | 224.2 | 16.7 | 13.40 | |
| #44 | 129 | 3,812,007 | 407.4 | 31.8 | 12.82 | |
| #45 | 111 | 3,280,762 | 350.6 | 27.4 | 12.82 | |
| #46 | 229 | 7,030,590 | 723.3 | 58.6 | 12.34 | |
| #47 | 204 | 6,460,607 | 644.3 | 53.9 | 11.96 | |
| #48 | 200 | 6,377,258 | 631.7 | 53.2 | 11.88 | |
| #49 | 191 | 6,187,391 | 603.3 | 51.6 | 11.69 | |
| #50 | 114 | 3,750,862 | 360.1 | 31.3 | 11.51 |